LASTONTAS24 wrote:rajukurup wrote:Today is world family day . family is the most important aspect for the success of any individual a good support from the family can make an individual to rise to the position that he longs in earlier periods joint families were prevalent but now nuclear family has taken its place .in a joint family people could share more with their members and this created a positive psychological effect in them but in a nuclear family this sharing is less and people are more selfish there are exceptions and it depends on the attitude of parents I would say family is the backbone for the success of any individual. members please share your opinions of a good family
I would like to give with my own opinion about a family Especially Today is a WORLD FAMILY DAY...In regards about a family in our country...( Philippines )...I would say we have a closed family ties....We have 2 types of family....An EXTENDED family And NUCLEAR family...Those family has their own way to raised with their respective children where in the head of a family ( Father/husband ) is the main source /A good provider for their home...Where in he is the one who work for their family who provides the foods..medicines..shelters..educations for their wife & children as well...Then the light of a family ( Mother/wife )is the one who taken cared the children while the husband/father is not around...She is the person who descipline the kids/children to became a responsible..loving..caring..and God fearing in our society...But Both Father & Mother has the greatest influenced for their children to became a role model in our society....It is showed their good attitudes to the people around them through the upbringing on their parents....They can interacted outsides of their home for being a respective children & God fearing one...A Parents is the main source of strength for their children ..They molded them while they are still a smaller kids so that when they were became a parents also ..They brought it what their parents imparted a knowledge for them...Then Every Family around the world had a different kind of styles in how to raised their respective kids/children....We should respect on them If Their parents are a quiet strict and disciplinarians because They brought it with their parents as well....Some of them brought for being a conservative children/person because They raised on it with their traditional way then The other one for being a liberated children because they get on it with their parents who showed to became a liberal mind at all....Many instances that can be influenced for their children in our society And It should be kept the family intact in order the children would growing up to became a good and God fearing in our society as well...
Arvind9 wrote:That is where you are wrong there is a stage in life when a woman comes in a mans life that his wife she comes from a different background she changes everything, my mother always used to say when a woman comes into a family it all depends on how good is her background her education thats what makes the difference how quickly she can adapt to her new life,I still remember my brother got married and she did not stay long with us she left for her parents place maybe her parents fell short of giving her good education and all the things you mentioned,on the contrary my wife always stayed with us maybe her parents gave her wrong advice
Arvind9 wrote:rajukurup wrote:Arvind9 wrote:Time has changed a lot,what you are talking about these values are only there in small towns and villages, in citys family has less meaning than before some of your own family members and relatives will work against you for their own selfish motives,I dont have any relationship with my brother because he cheated me and my mother it had legal implications I could have gone to the court against him but my mother was against it,so we decided to break ties with him seems it made no difference to him some of our relatives were also helping him we have broken ties even with them,nowdays your own family members and relatives can be your biggest enemys because of their selfish motives an outside friend or person could be more reliable just for the simple reason that they dont have intrests clashing with you.
these all arises due to communication gap between members of the family . according to me no one is born mischievious it is the circumstances and way he is brought up makes the man vicious . if proper care and advice is given by the family he can change a lot
Why we were bought up by the same parents ,there was no communication problem my parents favoured him they always said he was very capable I was the black sheep I should have gone bad you are talking the opposite but It did not affect me ,he is doing very well in life he is a IT professional from Bangalore there was no reason for doing what he did ,you are talking as if he is a kid who needs advice he is above 50
Arvind9 wrote:Time has changed a lot,what you are talking about these values are only there in small towns and villages, in citys family has less meaning than before some of your own family members and relatives will work against you for their own selfish motives,I dont have any relationship with my brother because he cheated me and my mother it had legal implications I could have gone to the court against him but my mother was against it,so we decided to break ties with him seems it made no difference to him some of our relatives were also helping him we have broken ties even with them,nowdays your own family members and relatives can be your biggest enemys because of their selfish motives an outside friend or person could be more reliable just for the simple reason that they dont have intrests clashing with you.
tasman1 wrote:mercy killing is still killing , folks , i do not understand you , what is wrong with you all
hyldig wrote:Cave age or ston(er) age ? Agree with Nicorj . The oh so goody Doctors kept my father alive . He was a vegetable almost uncapable of speaking and almost with no remaining body functions before his brain finally gave up and he died . In stead of keeping him alive for 6 month in this condition to suffer they should have let the poor man die . Death is to prefer when you have experienced someone becomming a vegetable first hand .