The young man also said that, now as an adult, he had no idea of what was appropriate sexual behaviour if he took a woman his own age on a date, so he avoids forming relationships. He has become a lonely young man.
Some may say that it is every boy's dream, and that might be true for many - at the start. I still remember dreams of Mrs Kelly who used to wear those dropped-waist light summer dresses that would ride up whenever she sat on the desk to read to my high school English class. But that dream isn't what happens when it becomes reality.
It very quickly becomes an exercise of power, with the teacher holding all of the cards. That is why it is classed as rape - it doesn't matter what sex the perpetrator or the victim is, because rape is all about holding & enforcing power over someone.
My female P.E. teacher at high school was jailed 13 years after I graduated for having a relationship with a female student who was in one of the sports teams that often traveled & required overnight stays away. The girl was team captain, and that gave the teacher an excuse to have the girl stay in her room while traveling (to talk match tactics etc).
Again, the student said she felt unable to end the relationship & was forced to do things she found repulsive as she did not consider herself to be a lesbian. But years later she still had doubts about her sexuality, and again had problems forming close relationships with either men or women. I found the record of my P.E. teacher after a quick Google search of her name:
Name: LEE JOYCE **Surname removed by seaeagle** (NSW- Sydney)
Age: 50yrs old (Around 40 when offenses occurred as girl was 3 years behind me)
Sentence: Sentenced in the NSW District Court in 1996 to 15months non parole.
Offence/ Other: P.E. Teacher. Pleaded guilty to having sexual intercourse without consent and 2 acts of indecency. Victim was a 14yr old girl who was Removed's student.