My opinion is that a moderator that isn't impartial isn't a good one (so I will never talk personally with our forum moderators), a moderator, on my opinion, must coldly follow the guideliness.
I generally don't get bothered when the moderator locks a topic or edit some that I have posted, because first: I didn't read the rules because have no time (so i may be uncousciously going agaisn't the rules). 2nd: I'm pretty sure that the ysense moderator, Valerie, taking into account the guideliness, is doing it because of a inedequacy of our ideas/way of express, or that a theme that has potential to cause problems was brought up, following the rules, and not because she likes or dislikes someone.
There is here a lot of people who see the world in their own way, and some even have a ego to defend, friction is inevitable, so a moderator must be completely impartial. So, I don't like or dislike our forum moderators as moderators, as person i don't know them. I sure respect them as fellow human beings
Also, as moderators of this forum, they are representing ysense, so i don't take any of the content moderation personally.
And there is more, i learned English and French by listening news and reading online, and I never care too much if the other side will get my ideas correctly, because i know no grammar in both languages. Potential for a lot of misunderstandings...