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Secrets to a happy relationship? are there any?

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#1 by pindokhan123 » Wed May 03, 2017 05:56

hey my good friends,if you are in a relationship and are happy,,,,,,,,,,,,did you see there how i have separated the two? relationship is one part,being happy is another :roll:
getting back to what i was saying......and are happy,what is your secret? what do you sacrifice or do to have the minimum of problems?

personally,i think the most 3 important factors in any relationship are being loyal, understanding each others needs and compromising on everything you disagree on,,,,,the latter i find is the biggest reason why couples breakup or have problems in their relationships.

what works for you?
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#2 by tasman1 » Wed May 03, 2017 06:06

My bad English , prevent me to understand word happy
Translate word happy , what is that ?
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#3 by pindokhan123 » Wed May 03, 2017 06:11

tasman you little softy whoosh bag :D happiness defined is when a person is tension free,is satisfied with her/his other half and their relationship is truly blissful,,,,,,,,,,,,that's when i see a person really happy when there are no problems in their marriage,,i mean major ones,,little ones like,,where's my other sock? or you shut the door i did it last time :D are irrelevant things,,,,,,,,i'm talking about major man/wife agendas here....do you understand now the word 'happy'?

here it is again from google

'Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being which can be defined by, among others, positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.
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#4 by BouldRake » Wed May 03, 2017 06:20

I've said it so many times before, but I'll say it again, love is a chemically induced state invented by evolution by means of natural selection because your species is entirely incapable of forming a symbiotic relationship with another living organism without first being drugged.
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#5 by pindokhan123 » Wed May 03, 2017 06:24

BouldRake wrote: I've said it so many times before, but I'll say it again, love is a chemically induced state invented by evolution by means of natural selection because your species is entirely incapable of forming a symbiotic relationship with another living organism without first being drugged.

oh so bouldrake ,i guess your secret is to get the other half drugged then isit ? :D


comon then,the pharmacy here will be shutting soon,gimme sum good ones to use on the other specie..need to prepare dinner soon,might do a nice sweet dish with your secret ingredient ;)
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#6 by Arvind9 » Wed May 03, 2017 06:42

This Google defination of happiness is good to be put in a school textbook,everyone understands happyness in their own way depends how well you can understand a person,in the past ten years many relationships have broken up main reason man is jobless,money,and cheating on your partner.
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#7 by pindokhan123 » Wed May 03, 2017 06:46

Arvind9 wrote: This Google defination of happiness is good to be put in a school textbook,everyone understands happyness in their own way depends how well you can understand a person,in the past ten years many relationships have broken up main reason man is jobless,money,and cheating on your partner.


yep i agree arvind,,,so many reasons for happiness and so many more for being unhappy :(

strange how life goes by,so many ups,so many downs,nothing ever remains stable,people come and go,situations change,,,humans are so vulnerable to emotions..society,personal circumstances all have a toll on our happiness,,its true,external environments effect us more on how we feel within ourselves.
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#8 by zegon » Wed May 03, 2017 06:53

My wife just feels happy if i have Viagra at home. :roll:
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#9 by pindokhan123 » Wed May 03, 2017 06:56

:silent:
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#10 by RoseGold » Wed May 03, 2017 07:31

Takes two to argue, so when this arises, I just listen. No need to say something you'll regret later,
even with an apology, the person never forgets. Be his/her best friend. Considerate, always say I love you everyday.
Go out of your way to do special things. Always talk out..Not shout out your problem. I remember my vows and will stick with him to the end because I love him. We watch movies together, ball games together, listen to music, do chores together. This is "True Love" ;)
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#11 by Marcel-R6 » Wed May 03, 2017 07:32

zegon wrote: My wife just feels happy if i have Viagra at home. :roll:

:lol:

I wanted to make a comment...but never mind :lol:
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#12 by seaeagle » Wed May 03, 2017 07:43

zegon wrote: My wife just feels happy if i have Viagra at home. :roll:

Yes. I've heard that it is good to put a tablet or two in the washing machine if you want the collars of work shirts to stay nice and stiff.
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#13 by pindokhan123 » Wed May 03, 2017 07:45

RoseGold wrote: Takes two to argue, so when this arises, I just listen. No need to say something you'll regret later,
even with an apology, the person never forgets. Be his/her best friend. Considerate, always say I love you everyday.
Go out of your way to do special things. Always talk out..Not shout out your problem. I remember my vows and will stick with him to the end because I love him. We watch movies together, ball games together, listen to music, do chores together. This is "True Love" ;)


thats so sweet rosy,,,i wish twas the same for me :(

btw if you don't mind me asking you,how long u been married for? i been married for nearly 12..........seems more like hardcore frontline duty than anything else.
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#14 by pindokhan123 » Wed May 03, 2017 07:59

seaeagle wrote:
zegon wrote: My wife just feels happy if i have Viagra at home. :roll:

Yes. I've heard that it is good to put a tablet or two in the washing machine if you want the collars of work shirts to stay nice and stiff.

good one seaeagle lol :lol:
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#15 by pindokhan123 » Wed May 03, 2017 08:11

i guess this sums me up in one quote :roll: maybe its in the wrong section but hey,,,,its relevant here too,its my thread so there :D


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#16 by greengarden » Wed May 03, 2017 10:00

zegon wrote: My wife just feels happy if i have Viagra at home. :roll:

:lol:
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#17 by greengarden » Wed May 03, 2017 10:05

RoseGold wrote: Takes two to argue, so when this arises, I just listen. No need to say something you'll regret later,
even with an apology, the person never forgets. Be his/her best friend. Considerate, always say I love you everyday.
Go out of your way to do special things. Always talk out..Not shout out your problem. I remember my vows and will stick with him to the end because I love him. We watch movies together, ball games together, listen to music, do chores together. This is "True Love" ;)

:thumbup:
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#18 by pindokhan123 » Wed May 03, 2017 10:22

yep,it takes two 2 tango,two to do the twist and when one cocks up,the other has to pay the price too :(


what you need is rhythm man,,,a good slow rhythm ;)
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#19 by Nikorj » Wed May 03, 2017 10:50

Yeah yeah, Love and all that cuddley stuff.

Drink responsible on your first date, So you can see what or who you're dating :thumbup:

Don't have sex on first date, Makes it easier when you wake up screaming :thumbup:


(Important,Critical :!: ), Try finding out how much money He/she has and compare it to Hi's/her looks!.

In this example we will use a scale from 1-10, When 1 is= :shock: And 10 is= your favourite porn star (Remember!! This must be done as one of the first things)

1 : I'f He/She is rich a 4 would be okay, Filthy rich!! It could go as low as a 3, 2 if your desperate and 1 if you're blind.

2 : All above 5 depend on the looks. If it's exactly 5 :? I would suggest rolling a dice.


Remember : Money can buy you anything.
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#20 by Arvind9 » Wed May 03, 2017 11:08

Nikorj wrote: Yeah yeah, Love and all that cuddley stuff.

Drink responsible on your first date, So you can see what or who you're dating :thumbup:

Don't have sex on first date, Makes it easier when you wake up screaming :thumbup:


(Important,Critical :!: ), Try finding out how much money He/she has and compare it to Hi's/her looks!.

In this example we will use a scale from 1-10, When 1 is= :shock: And 10 is= your favourite porn star (Remember!! This must be done as one of the first things)

1 : I'f He/She is rich a 4 would be okay, Filthy rich!! It could go as low as a 3, 2 if your desperate and 1 if you're blind.

2 : All above 5 depend on the looks. If it's exactly 5 :? I would suggest rolling a dice.


Remember : Money can buy you anything.

Quiet true to a extent I have seen very beautiful women they work as maids have 3-5 kids from their first relationship looking for men who have money,wonder to what extent it works that a billionaire will accept a maid with her kids for what,her curves ?
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